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Off Late, It has become very important to talk about mental health, Ever wondered why this ailment was not very popular in the older times!! Thanks to technology for making the term hover so close to our heads.

We have become very deeply accustomed to our technological way of life, that greeting,thinking and acknowledging about the ones in your own nest is becoming a new distant dream now.

Thanks to Covid19, Its intentions were solely to bring us down on our own grounds to meet our very own players who are snorted out to battle different situations from one stadium. But seems we have gone a step ahead in getting closer to technology.

Life has different flavors to offer!!

Aint it?...If that would n't be the case, then it would n't be called as a roller coaster,

It is indeed a rainbow and also precisely similar to cassata ice-cream 
But its not that sweet ..It has its own dark shades of violet, blue, purple ......and to the grace that it has to offer you can't runaway from the backdrops of it!

Mentally people are open to all sides of criticism now-a-days,
They have social media to criticize on...
They have home ground people to please upon..
They have probably set a standard of rating to themselves to be labelled as best always!
And they have literally forgotten the way they would dress up as a joker and walk as a legend out of the house and dint care what people commented, because my dear one's they were pleased to accept the bad and good of their own sides, and they embraced it....and laughed there heart out about it!! 

And Now you see, The world of glass has become so busy in pleasing people and showcasing their stakes of class and standard so high that we have forgotten to wash our dirty hands now,

All this Blog has to say is, You can't be always happy! If your always happy .....I wonder which planet you are from ....or probably i would wonder assuming you to have reached the highest mode of salvation already...

You are a human in the garden of wilderness
You are prone to have bad days!
You are prone to be unhappy with certain situations.
You are prone to not be fine...with certain people's behavior.
You are prone to mess up with every one in a new place...
You are prone to receive criticism...Imagine even the supreme power can't satisfy people, Imagine who are we...?? 

Being subjected to the bad days doesn't mean you have done a mistake! 

Imagine you are a pot with different grains of emotions and ideas, you are suppose to mix with the foreign particles to let the plant grow.Why do you think the plant doesn't grow in a day or so?Why does it take generations for us to harvest its fruits.

"The tree is all about the culmination of the past and the future representing the present of each day."

Do not reach to any kind of judgement, Due to certain fall of leaf, Enhance the beauty of all seasons and get on to get dirty while soiling it..Be ready to taste all the spices...Don't allow yourself to just stick to have that cherry in your life,Opinions are Mindsets of how different people look and see to varied experiences

Let them not be sorry about it because the journey of their's might be short or long doesn't matter the scar left behind it makes it more valid than anything else. So Instead of asking people to be more strong, I would post this stating for them to Open themselves more to receive all and choose the ones which suits you the best. Make sure to include the bad days in your book of good memories album because your built more lovely only with the kind of bad days or instances you had, The fights will matter the most in those books...If not your journey is no less than a "NULL OBJECT"

Cheers to Flaws
Good Luck!

The Woman Cycle

The Ladies Menstrual Cycle is one the most significant for health and the familes as well.

There are certain rules and significances that the world should follow to maintain the better comfort areas for the goodness of wellbeings in both the genres

Isolating a person and presuming them to have a honey moon period at that point of time is one big mistake ..to be precise the PMS symptoms are very much similar to labour pains, according to the health care advisory

When you isolate yourself at this time from the family, You don't isolate yourself from God, You can relentlessly pray, the taboo of not praying to certain god is just created my mere domestic humans on earth according to their comfort.

There is ultimate one form that exists which is visibly invicinble and can be felt through the tones and vibrations of the hymns when you chant it to awaken souls. 

The rituals are mere customs to bring certain vibes of concentration to your body, If not where ever you tether to stand and chant, you will feel the presence of his existence, because every atom whether the living or Non living has his presence and is created only and only through his own allowance.

Do not take the power of his chants to ones head, And command over people or belittle someone, by being a know it all!

Observe the variety, Give a chance to change, Appreciate the new and treasure the history, Everyone has their go!

Avoid taking the pride of praying to head, Know that you stand, talk and preach only because he allows you, If not your existence as no value, So be politely humble by guarding your own self respect!

The Menstrual Cycle is the boon to the world!

The whole cell system of the body is changed and released.

 The world for which the ancestors wait for seeds to get nourished through the trauma of 9months, to have an offspring, Shud not just cherish the flowers but also love the consequences of it.

So appreciate and bow to the world who has granted you life, As they Say, Devaki is the seed mother, But Yashoda is the journey of 9months to innumerable pains and till the end of it.

When a woman bears the soreness, And has given her own level of sacrifices, Appreciate them, And be humble. But,these instances does not encourage the society to offer her more grievances and expect a new level of sacrifices.

So, Dear Woman..

Your kind, But let that not your kindness be taken as advantage, 

You have every Shade... Explore the wildness,

Give and Contribute postivity , Decline and cut down the thoughts that don't let you grow, 

"" 🌸Learn to Standup for urself! 🌸""

ITS NOTHING WRONG!

THE WORLD IS NOT A WISH GRANTING FACTORY!

INFACT ITS A STEALING ONE!

The Nandi signifies the power of the chastity, purity,surrender, womanism and divine reproduction.

The Storm

The Storm...

Most of the times life gives you lemons make it a lemonade or pass by the so called storm.The journey changes you...

And you really will have to make it through that violent, metaphysical, symbolic form.

No matter how metaphysical or symbolic it might be, make no mistake about it; 

It will cut through flesh like a thousand razor blades.People will bleed there and you will bleed too.Hot, red blood.You'll catch the blood in your hands, your own blood and blood of others too.

And once the storm is over you won't remember how you made it or managed to survive though it.You won't even be sure, in fact, whether the storm is really over or not!

But! One thing is certain.When you come out of the storm you won't be the same person who walked in.That's what this storm's is all about.

The Tale Before The "D day"!

The Traditions have been an age old bias towards women!

A girl will have to leave her nest to build a new den

She quivers when she leaves her built hopes behind.

She renders her heart out to a family unknown 

She was hardly a human with defined emotions until she realized that she was suppose to be no less than water which is ever ready to transform

How, How, & How do you think the change would be acceptable!? Asked a little girl to the new bride

She read a tale before she left for the wedding dias that day to the young little girl and herself! 

POEM : To the New Phase!

Wrong is the one! Who thinks a girl leaves...

She carries, binds, multiplies & Adds until you feel tired of counting. My friend!!

Yes!! you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.

But let there be spaces in your togetherness.

And let the winds of heaven dance between you 

Love one another, but do not bind each other in limitations.

Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls

Fill each others cup with hope and drink by giving space to breath 

Give one another of your bread but not from the same loaf.

Consider each other more as love rather than responsibility on head.

Share pain, love, grief, ...Let the eyes speak the language of love

Surrender with will! Respect More......and Talk fierce truths 

Let not the man forget that he has another family to take care from where the girl hails!

Let not! Let not! & Let not.
Said the man Above!

Consider the power of humanness & Immense love in each other rather than in pillars and monuments.

Said the man Above!
Said the man Above!

She closed the column,

Lifted her cancan and walked with a heavy heart, 

Chin up with a bitter-sweet smile. 

She breathed long and said! 

Welcome the Change!

The Sapiens

Humans are the most selfish creatures because they have more brains to use than follow their heart,
More choices to make than living the one with entire zeal
Have become more pleasing to let their selves more of centeredness.
And when a human brain uses his heart (as in not the one which pumps blood, but the one which makes your soul run after that fact that makes you forget the rest) to make a decision in any stream of life he is considered to be
An Idiot,
A Foolish,
A Wanderer &
An outlandish variant of a kind

The Human mind focuses more on those liabilities where it is not required for him to pay attention.
They prioritize in impressing a certain third party kind who was never a part of their world but had been looped into become one due to a certain dependent resource that you are connected with.

A man should learn to focus on the ones who bother and struggle for him, rather than trying to change himself for the ones who never worried about him

I know its a mere fact which is very evident and simple but is hardly ever applied.
We the so-called fast generation, 

The Tech Savvy's, 

The people who are running after quality of life rather than quantity!

Has actually forgotten the basic old
traditions of where life actually is present?

No!! Fellow Mates..This post is not to convince neither to feel right about self.Its for explaining a point of view.

Life is present in living with those who live for you or are living for you.
Life is present in not pleasing every alternate being,But! Is present in pleasing the pleased already.

** Many might wonder why should we please the pleased?? 

Pleasing doesn't mean agreeing to smthg which is not right! At times sitting along with them for hours just to understand their point and taking time to explain your sight is also one of a kind!!! 

You can find multiple variants accordingly

It's in sticking to those few walking bodies, rather than fetching for new at every place.
It's in being self-satisfied than greedy

My Dear Netizens,

Blogs are not here to preach. They are here to remind you what your losing which
I guess you already possess but are leaving in the hind sight.

Few connections which are gold!
From Your Life bearers, Your Partner/Spouse, Your Siblings and then  to your closest and possibly the tiniest circle should be treasured the most

To All the atheists out there!!

Trusting the glories & tales I know their can no possibly be a thiest like you!

Just believing in the existence of possibility and feeling the power of being loved whilist also being able to reciprocate back to that particular feel should be enough to be a thiest.

Dawn before Yawn..

The veil which left before being withered.
The hopes which crept from paths tough to be adhered.

The dungarees of the farmers which lingered around in mud with a little feel of being called shabby.Now wore crisp tees like coffins around the neck.

Days being shallower by throwing fake smiles as though giving condolences from afar instead of greeting "Good mornings!" before a byee..

Knowingly or unknowingly
Willingly or Unwillingly..
It was all falling away ..before their thoughts let them wail away.

There were more starry eyes in the day then what the night brought in.
Bounds of talents rose like Sunshine  after the dawn sank in.

Dwelled in a universe arranged of wires than with strings of love.
We waited for hope to paint new canvases of Dove.

                                   -- Aishwarya Agnihotri

Criticism

Criticism

How do you take criticism?
How well do you handle with rumors? was the last question asked by an interviewer. There was a panel of three grey haired frowned men positioned in a relaxed state as though they don't care whether I got the job or no.

The middle man starred at my resume while the other two scribbled in their files. I silently wondered about what did I actually flaunt so much in it was it so intersting!!! That he hardly bothered to drop a stare on my face.

But it was only this question which forced all the three vaguely seated men to drop in stares like that of how a lion looks at his prey.

I noticed a serious expectation from them urging me to answer the query stating "I would handle them with Grace" (eye's rolling in head)
But then! I flinched at first..
Mumbled at second ..
And finally I told

" I am not someone who would walk away withit.I would find out the source make him sit and talk before he gets habituated of leaving his featherful stock behind with traces which have no roots"

to which I observed bewildered expressions loom on their fringed faces.
I was sure of not bagging this job. But I was happy with what I had answered.

At times! In terms to save a present situation we lie and pretend to behave "Take over it all kind of shoulders"! Not knowing this would ruin the current base culture of being honest"

We live on a gradation where delivering of a statement is like munching tit bits to impress the opposite person. And surprisingly we cringe inside and repeat those sentences again and try apprehending it saying

"Did I really say that?"
"Do I really really mean it?"

And finally you dust it off murmuring "forget it!"

No..Being excited seeing someone and blabbering is fine! It's totally Acceptable to...!!

But speaking or accepting something which is against the norms to impress your opponent is a BIG NO NO!

Criticism in today's industry of every genre has become preluding.

How far you stand up for it by yourself and abide by internally is right! But how far you socialize with it go gain attention and play being victim cards by tagging yourself to hashtags!!!

Don't you think earning basic manners should be your birth rule? Stand up if something around you is not sane.
We can't expect the world to stand up for you until unless you "Wake up!"from your slumber

Happy Morning :)

SHOW - BUSINESS

The Ultimate SHOW - BUSINESS

Self - marketing
Being Patted!
Receiving Acknowledgements

Have you ever thought about all the terms which have taken a primary importance in our life's cycle.

We live in a world of Show Business.
Where a normal office going guy saves a life of a person who meets with an accident and brags all day about it at his workplace.

Where going and doing charity at ventures by clicking pictures is considered cool while running away his own mom to an old age home spree.

Asking attention from parents even at an age where you need to smile, hug and be there for whatever it takes is such an irony to see when adolescents ranging in there mid twenties demand for it.

I happen to listen to a conversation among two siblings where the older brother has borne a trophy at home for surviving a classy living in the city. while the sister insists on him to take him along to city.and questions drop in 

"You..youuu.. Areee to impossible to sustain in this world.
Because you are to naive.
You are to sacrificing in nature like a lame lamb!! It's irking...to see that
You are dressing....why so bright!?

She asked him..
Then what should I be like to come along with you to city?
He said you got to be something which you are not!

You got to hit! Stab! Lie!
You need to show off even if you paint your nails new!
You need to look classy edge by wearing these knee length slit cut dresses like the rest do...have you not seen my pictures on Facebook.
Oh man! You don't even have an account right..

You need to maintain your outlook and talk fluent and strong though whatever your talking is dumb! (Who cares..!!)

And look at you !!
Hairs all thrown away...
Wearing knee-length bright skirts, and singing la la la..All day...Ehh!!

You need to elaborately describe about how you saved a woman (though your brains know that you have replaced a woman from an ant).

This world is a business..you need to steal thoughts and make a happening life out of it. Its Simple!
Survival of the fittest..you see."

I wondered and laughed heartily about what "Survival of the fittest" statement would actually mean to this hollow man.

And pondered over my own self.The 3/4th of the world now gives priority to who is not naive and innocent anymore.It demands you change and urges you to steep low will make presume to have fallen for evil frail heels of this world

But how far you stand aloof by staying calm and pragmatic by not losing your purity in self will make it better not just for the self but also for the coming generations to understand that the magic and positivity the epic tales/stories of our mythologies preached are not just myths but logics (logies) which truly existed!

I hope and wish instead of telling there was a world of a kind which had these powers (Portrayed in Avengers) were gained
Not by fake self marketing,
Not by wearing high heels,
Not by being all glowiee and glassy

Infact it was all formed and developed from within
by investing on giving away possessions.
by finding meaning through every element and pore which existed.
By awakening the powers of humbleness and humility.
By leaving vicious the outer appearance (Maya) smash under heels,

Like always said "Great powers came with great giveaways, to shoulder heavy responsibilities". Let them know that was heart breakingly beautiful which had left their souls speak to each other not their mouths unlike today!

Never go out of fashion

It's important to show HOW YOU FEEL?
It's important to behave REAL!
It's important to NOT PLEASE every alternate person.
It's important to look into self!
Before passing JUDGEMENTS.

Opinions to a thought are like relatives.
It's Important to chose and stand by your instincts rather than allowing an unacceptable feel grow just because it majority on people to weigh down.

Every Choice has its pros and cons, so there is hardly a choice defined as bad or good. Situations are the teachers of the values and intentions which let's you decides accordingly of what is being violated or what has to be invented to make it standstill.

"Life is not a manual or set of rules "says every person to make self sound Uber cool and broad. Little do my eyes fall low immediately when I lose in thought.
(*faking smiles around*) That it is actually a certain set of rules to many lives pertaining around. Few dare to livein by cracking the friddles in the grid and few choose to settle among the squares in the grid.

WE CAN CHOOSE AND LIVE UNTIL IT DOESN'T HARM THE SANITY AND PURITY OF ANY RELATIONSHIP.

We live in a society of Judgements..
Let us be kindly honest.
Rather than dishonestly cheesy
Being Simple was always and will always be in trend. Not something which goes out of fashion.

So bring it on guys... "Never go out of fashion."

Be the right kind!

Kiara - The Flaneur

She is a lot more available,
Way to approachable
And a lot of preparation before she puts it on a plate for display.

She considers herself a flaneur
And No wonder! She is one.....

I ain't writing any biographies...
I am describing the characters niche to just define how varied they are...

We as soul cousins sisters are raised from a root,
But were compared more than often, Judgement became a norm of the house.

Appreciation took a back stand or maybe just turned into not more than a mere sarcastic laugh.

I found families to be ruthlessly proud, Instead of being Humble...Because maybe that quality was more pleasable I pondered.

Hemming down about cousins was important! Because they come out as your first critics! Each and every person is going through some insecurity. Here is where clicking on the right button can make a difference for him/her to fly or fall apart.

Relatives, Friends, Cousins...

I thoroughly understand and completely know, that the world is not a wish-granting factory.

It literally gives your jerks where the ground under your feet gets sucked away...
It leaves you bewildered about many nuances.....

But, My Dear Mate...

In case your reading... this...

Let me tell you...Look straight! And be damn honest even if it's bitter for the other end to understand
Give them Hopes! Admiring of what they can be...!?

If you! Tend to give them a false ray of hope.

I assure they will be no one as guilty as you when you know they failed again...

Being bluntly positive is foolishness...
Encourage, Stand up... Push them...by Admiring them...You are no one's judge!

From the Adventures of
Kiara, Meera and Amyra

The "Ra" clan

Beta Meeraaaaaaaa!! With not so affectionate but an irritating tone... like a sudden push in an mmts, I wake up!! And to my surprise i notice my brother dressed up crisp!!
Humming ...Dil chori saada hogayaa

I smileee.. saying "Wah yaar taste badal raha hai tumhara" He says wear your glasses in reply! murmuring pata nahin kiske sapne dekthi rehti hai"
Suddenly i feel he's given me a fling of confidence about how good i know him as i get down swaying like a pendulam clock adjusting my glasses on nose. And i yell 

Oh Shit!! Its EIGHT!!

While Mister bro buttoning his wrist says ...I thought you had a holiday! While he talks with his eyes swinging and rolling in all angels with my dad.

It's 11'o clock...

I snuggle myself with a jug of heavy dark coffee on my not so cushioned sofa reminding my not so stood out senses about my intense dream and how i feel it to be strangled somewhere with my real life.

So...Sipping my hot spurrr flame able coffee ...I lose myself from where i would like to begin in REAL again.....!!

We are three sisters, Who are as different as soy sauce when compared to Aloo mutter ..... But, Are connected with one substance common with the another (No, Not! Blood guys...)

If you ask we are own ..I would say we were so owned in reading each other, so much that we at times had actually lost are own identities in proving who was the best among the family...
And now are in fields were we juggle around with the mundane routines...

Oh no!!! We are not married yetttthhh......

Amyra, Meera, and Kiara.......!!!

We had & have a lovely set of brothers too...who had a see-saw kind of an age gap..Who were... and are... formally seen giggling and laughing at high school,office and KG jokes.

You call me a feminist! I don't know if i am.. But every second person sitting on my right in my office say so because i am placed at extreme left which i call it a lucky spot! Because i get to hear chaos only from one hemisphere of my brain. And the rest of my brain is buzzing around with slow motioned stories ..!!!!

If the world says so! .................
Its half influenced...I feel when someone states a statement by calling "If the world..."
Because, they are very few who read between the lines and rest just hover on headlines.

What i intend to wobble is....I do not call myself a feminist.
Rather i would state talking about girls from a middle class back ground has more interesting tales than the upper and the lower standards.
Its because they are openly free with their tongues to express. And we trail on the swing of  diplomacy were all ends are knotted.

Amyra......!!

The eldest.... in the set of three, She is 6 months older to Meera. It's difficult to tale her qualities in a statement cause she ranges
from being a noodle eater to "Oil kitna zyada hai isme"
from being a loud talker to choosing silent colors in clothes."Yeh bahut zyada loud hai"
from being "Woh mujhe chahiye" to "Iski zarurat nahin hai..."
from "Meri baath suno" to "Aap sunaiye"

No!!! Do not make any assumptions...She has not become "Mild" or "Quiet". 

She has become as strong as whiskey and as soft as wine...

Woh ladki jise maths se nafrath hua karthi thi..
Aaj wo use jhat pat nipta deti hai...mano maths koi problem wala granth nahin,

Chutkule wali kitab ho!

Nahin kehti main ki woh sudhargayi hai!
Woh aaj bhi dominant hai!
Woh aaj bhi apni baath rakhti hai
But, I see experiences have bloomed her.
Or shud i say
Zindagi ke padaw par nikhar chali hai...

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Meera's Encounter.!!

January 2016

Hey Meera Sharma (Now that's me)

Where i finally host my nib to the papers underlying my messy couch trying to scrunch-in few details about a mysterious incident.....As the ink fangs from the nib to absorb the millennial tissues on those hazy sheets. I throw myself back to the time when things where pitter-patter
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My head was dizzy from what i watched last night at a family dinner......!! I just want to be scolded by Maa and Paa like i usually would be few years ago for not acing well in mathematics which is an antonym for one of my great interests. (Sighing to myself...hmmm).

May be i felt this way to push myself out of what i witnessed yesterday at the close of the day.

It was nearing to dawn,it started being misty...
And I found him far in one of the oldest and much known deserted states of the sub continent, where the land of dusty and hot steamy winds is shared with the neighboring green flagged Muslim dominant country, ....

A land still known as the Frontier where i always dreamt of having a traditional love fairy tale, i get myself punched by a wall as i walk out zoned....and wonder about the effects causing these sinusoidal waves in my cerebrum is by gluing my eyeballs to our so called Hindi serials junk

(Getting to my senses...from being lost!.....)

I found him staring me from a shaded brick house having, a wide avenue surrounded with cactus and
wild date trees down the center and barefoot decade old boys dribbling with sand balls along the cold pavement. As though it was some kind of regularly played ritual. As i strode ahead flickering my eyes giving distant glances to people around me.As i kept striding over I found and took note that it was actually a huge worned out mansion, I notice age old intricacies grooved on walls of each pillar liberating an own tale of pride,love & culture.

Was it my illusion that it seemed to be him starring me constantly, (Coz...i had weak sight! and so was doubting self..) It was getting dark the lights and the decoration at the dinner helped me get glimpses, But i was in doubt!?

As i moved i could sense a tingy strong smell sprouting from the surroundings,No it din't feel soothing neither was
harsh on my nostrils but it started to choke my throat, And i growled at once like a chimp and fell on ground to silent the thundering terror howling from me..

I gathered myself within fractions to slither out from the eyes of the rajwadi's piling sticks to lit the camp fire, The place was known as the land of kings - (Rajasthan),I had no notion why i feared getting caught as though i am up to a crime. Lying to others is fine,everyone does that!... It's also healthy and advisable.

(My conscious gave me a sigh to the preaching i was doing to justify myself)

I rolled my eyes and gasped at myself !!
Oh please!
Its the phenomenal truth, How else are you going to survive the suffering in this brutally cruel world?
But lying to yourself ?
Man!! Nowww,
That's shit hard and worst than being crazy, because me getting lost at family functions is a common thing but as always is a new chapter for my beloveds. At situations like these answering solutions of chemistry equations and physics numerical's of velocity and quantum sounded much happier than answering my gruesome parents if they happen to notice me missing among the whining aunties.

Sanity is overrated, It doesn't sink in,like me being crazy and having no branches over it's as true as bottle guard tasting delicious when compared to chole bature!
The guy whom i was going head over heels to sneak in his hood to smell the truth was a man whom i had no interest to even give a glance at school but he turned out to be the reason to shut down the branch of our flashy convent. But I don't know why was was i thinking that its that some guy whom i actually know...weird gut feelinggg.

I suddenly felt slippery as my feet turned sweaty and the sand bit me sore between the webs of my toes,It was more than just hurting, And being heavily dressed is more than a custom we north indians carry with elan! It was turning cold & dark, And i could here the slightest cheer traces from the dinner "Hippip Hurrayyy!!! Hippipp Hurayyy!!"  (where i had to be present at)

I exist in an industry which works non stop project after project, literally at every given second someone in the supply chain is a sign of progress and theirs someone whose always left unnoticed though you shake all the shells of your brain to satisfy and seek smiles.

Drama is more in my industry than an actor could actually act! Not entirely true &.No,I'm not begrudging my life,

As I know that they can be mend anyways into what you want it to be, All you need to have in you is... the guts of getting bankrupted while you try to find the true meaning to this chaos and end up giving valid answers to your parents until your cheques bounce.

You could be a student,an intern,a tourist, a dancer until you feel like your living it. At least I am learning to believe in it. I do not wish to remain trapped into these feelings anymore,And so i happened to take a holiday for my beloved far off cousins wedding with her beloved would-be!
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Ahh..hummm... There I notice him pale blue ,feather like light from probably forty five steps still to reach,Yes i am that good at math to measure the steps apt!
Ehh.....!!
I curse myself to be lost in thoughts by getting zoned out even at instances like these.
Such a moronn!!!!!I am,
No wonder i would be pushed out of the math class and would shamelessly linger and giggle around for being out from teachers who would make us scribble on board, And me being tall was her gunshot target
All would be fun lingering in the corridor until maa scorched her eye on me while taking rounds on the floor.

Getting back from my zone...I realize, I reached his room, wondered if it was his and was i at the right place, what if google maps could help! Oh no!!....Suchh.. lame pondering
Please get real Meeraa...!!!1

                                                                                                                           To be Continued.....

Unplanned Playlist!

Among crores and millions of beings striding in and out of the planet, There has been no person who is away from "Playlist" Music has become an integral part of each and every soul.

If you slow down and hear! While we chew those crisp hard nuts inside our mouth, we catch ourselves making crackling sounds which keep resonating till our brain.And whilst you incidentally tap your feet on ground while soaring high in the air on a swing....theirs an impromptu rhythm in sync. Isn't it?

We are bound with all the probable highs and lows of music from "sa re ga ma pa" to "hip hop" where we also end up having long discussions about the notes and styles of it from all stakes and corners of the world with friends,cousins and rest!

So as to bring light on.....Life is one such word, or say a high pitched intonation in these bunch of creative playlists!

I always had this one statement in mind i.e
 "Life is discovery!"

It's discovery, not when you end up having the highest grade in your class. But,its when you end up having a new rise of never to die curiosity while learning in you're class

It's discovery not when you win a cup in a marathon,But when you learn what was that mere instinct which made you run the marathon.

It's discovery not when you learn which subject you want to choose after you're 10th std. But when you actually begin the art of learning,how to analyze and make a decision.

It's discovery not when you lose with you're opponent and sit depressed. But, when you learn the lesson of what you are supposedly weak or good at.

I have noticed many instances since my childhood where parents tend to force their younger ones to follow the opinions and suggestions they seek from their peers and don't even bother to have a relevant discussion of taste with the one who is probably going to work,learn,grieve or master it!

I always wondered why are all well known people either drop-outs! or they are some kind of mis-happening's (as people say).. have actually made it to google (which is mostly the father and mother of all the solutions today!) Well! in my definition they have mastered what they loved by not bothering about the world in short.

To all those who plan things just like their selected songs of list in their phones.
Say yes! to everything that comes your way and challenge you're self if it pleases you not to please the rest in and around the globe.

Discover sanity of delicacy, wisdom, generosity and chivalry. Its a damn rare combination....try mastering at least one if your heart desires them or ......All! Again not to please but to grow.


Your's truly
     <3

Be heard!

                                       


Today! I was randomly going through this long updated new feature in whatsapp i.e "whatsapp status"
And i spotted one of a known person's status with a newspaper click which stated "Jobless engg graduate records video, kills self!" with a "Good morning" tag line from the individual who posted it.

What caught my half opened cornea's attention.... in the untimely morning (Now, you must be wondering ....early in the morning was she with her phone?...Oh! yes...umm..er.. I admit, i just roll over my hand below my headrest and grab the hard lined screen while laying on my couch giving a glance over every message with my half opened eyeball while the other is still asleep..and brood on to revert them later.)

And, as i said i usually drift back  people later...and they get offended because of my lame conduct..I happened to return back to this guy on his status by early noon by texting "Seriously!wats good morning" and he being alert as always who quickly pinged me saying "Good morning because we are not a fool like him to quit"

Well! well!! This guy is someone whom i have known for more than a decade to be precise...whose frame of mind and painless attitude is damn upfront for today's diplomatic world to understand or receive it in a positive manner.It so happened that this guy left his monthly pocket money which usually costs our half life's, and moments of happiness at stake saying my life is more than just the mere ruthless package the company pays.

Right now! Hopefully he must be building some unusual castles of his dreams into reality which are unsaid yet but are soon going to ring the bells of success in our eardrums! He denotes himself to be an outcast in this world where he is parallely sailing by... but is living by uttering "i m not built for the normal suffering which every human goes through....life should be a series of variety" he roars!

What actually made me scribble about this instant is,

I came across three humorous nuances which left my tiny nerves to wriggle over.
firstly the foolish guy who recorded his video and died (No offense... to his family..Condolences!)
Moreover about the guy who posted about him and tagged "Good morning"
lastly, me who thought the guy was sick to tag ..."Good morning" under such hideous post.
And later after his response i realized how incorrectly i would perceive this guy hadn't i asked him about it!

And then i wondered what about those known contacts of his or with anyone whom i would debate randomly in my leisure..because if we don't have anything to speak and i end up talking about this topic.....Just to begin or continue a conversation......hmmmm!
What i tether to conclude regarding the whole scenario is people are less clear about what they say! or supposedly sarcastic i presume in their own way, And before we end up to any conclusions, questioning them and having a conversation about it is much more imperative to have a clear picture rather than creating an imaginary perception about the individual.

Another point regarding the post the guy who attempted to carry on such a deliberate task .....I feel Though we might not be the best at what we do right now but time will hone us to be better in the long run!..we are definitely here with a purpose to fill our life's or the rest around us with some profound meaning which may render in itself by your perpetual conduct, we might create some instance of value for the coming generations, by letting them know valid theories of peace,learning,wit,power,smiles,maturity,contentment.....and last but not the least ...to live for the rest around, and to stop taking life for granted!

Acha...bhagya :).....................Gd luck!

The Other day!

Hey peeps!

I happened to witness a guy on paves the other day!

He wore a dangling pale cream shirt it seemed to be drooping of from one of his 

shoulders,

His crimson suit was hung on his left arm paired with royal blue pants 

styled from the 90's trends the belt was cripply buckled.

Shoes were murky brown fashioned in a pointed patterned as though reaching a high cliff

but yet seemed classy, i also noticed slight mist of dust hovered on it with the help of a candle which was lit at an accountable two step distance near a chana-batana stall

I tried reading his facial features,but was unable to catch hold of the details and was interleaved having a faint image of a man who was stiff yet hunched, I don't know how?

His hair was long almost lingered till the rim of the collar, i helped my curious eyes

reach his nose which had a bump bone, and was pointed out like a beak,

He seemed to be gifted with a very crisp jaw line, his complexion was unnoticed due to the dull street lights, yet i managed to strain self with this unconventional rage of curiosity and got a

glimpse of his silver lined eyes when his 7 inch screen's light beamed over his face for a while as he picked up a call. 

As i was reading him more,

The image my mind constructed earlier was transforming to where i reached till the 

second half stanza above.

Then i questioned myself!

What am i doing, Is it right to judge people the way i am doing?

But, Wait! Hold on!

This is how every alternate person judges at his first glance,

When i actually ended up seeing that man in the bright forefront light which 

dazzled through a car's flashy headgear and left all dark again in just fraction of seconds was 

the same man i met fortnight ago and spoke about a book named "Unsuitable boy" 

his gait of walking changed a lot since then i thought for a while, but then i broke myself from the string and pondered about

what we spoke.....hmm...No wonder! he was a man of matter and brains undoubtedly,

But,again as i scratched my cerebrum straining my tiny neurons in it...I thought over and pondered,

regretfully not finding any satisfying solution to quench my thirst in this 

unbearable brightness showered by Mr.Golden who skipped our ozone years ago!(Probably! true ryt..)

So here's my questionnaire for you brainee's,

What's the first thing you notice when you dash into a he/she?

What do think will make you stop and give a head turn to the next beside you!

      ( Looks are deceiving guys! It has become a world renowned statement now!!) 

And i want something else other than just this statement.....

Lets be honest...What do you notice first! How do you judge them?

Do you even reach out to a person without judging?

What makes us matter the most to lend out a hand for a shake?

Is shaking hands done only in business or known friends or also with the ones you

never seen?

Pen down and critic what you see,feel,and how you want it to be...

Dream...

There is always something we dream off ...which will land us to our sole purpose of existence.

 Let's say, you might dream off being an artist or may be a singer or, something extraordinary dwelling out of the mundane league. My statement here doesn't denote having varied dreams while you're asleep which portray or signify a  new character or event each night and you might end up stalking over that varied dream each day!

No! I don't mean that,
What i tether about Dream is,
Dreams are a subconscious state of mind, they release us from our so called comparisons, which we witness from our peers and also from inner self.
Its a gut instinct, a profound intuition.. which we crave for doing it each day...
Where we don't expect people to acknowledge us or push us to complete that task.
Where we just find reasons to get back into that schedule to chase and reach.
Where and when while implementing we always feel butterflies in our tummy...ohh yes! that's our right place! It means... your living not just surviving.!!

We are on a journey to keep an appointment with our selves.
But eventually, we happen to get carried away by the wind!
It might lure us for a while ..But, will drop us down mid-way, because it was not what we chose to be.Instead, it was just the one we happened to follow in herds.

We are in a steadfast race with no destiny finalized other than mere death which is for sure going to happen someday!
So when you have something new in the upper shelf of your brain which even your heart abides by but the world laughs at! when you happen to spill the beans with them.
Then i insist just FOLLOW IT !
Though its tough or we might see no road to get that done soon...but still drive towards it!

I always felt dreams are ways to convey of what and were your heart resides...It gives you traces and nuances to recognize your taste,your chastity,your affection,your inclination towards it...

Obviously they say it's much easier to follow your passions when you're financially secure, But
Let me tell you one small conversation which made me ponder ...whole day about what i am doing?
It goes this way....

 (I reach my office at work after a weekend! And, I just happened to dash into one of my co-worker (Pavan) )

Co-worker - Hey! how are you this morning?

Self: Am good! As-usual back to work..How are you?

Co-worker - So how's work going on ...

Self: Well....hmm its "Ista"(The application's name - probably on which i was working ) Last version's test.

Co-worker - You know what ...Ash ,When i mentioned work , I asked about your personal work or dream which you ever had ..Not about office...
Work at office is just 20% where you work to survive
But your remaining 80% should be the reason for your existence.And I was rightfully asking about that!

This session which lasted for just 2 mins turned my brain upside - down to just think over....

And then...
I  just initiated to work on my intuition...
Though have not reached yet!
But am set out to live a new journey which keeps me up! Each morning.

Where at least i can find solace in the fact that, i now have the time to pursue the things that really matter to me because now the option of doing things just for the sake of mere pennies isn't necessarily a GOAL any more!

Make a Difference !!

Talk!

Well ! How do I begin now...!!? What should I say!! What will they think about me.....what an obnoxious situation it is?......Why are they starring at me?...Hope i am not looking like a disaster....

Hope these questions pop up in every brains text field...!! If i am not wrong!

When we exchange numbers with strangers we just keep chatting with them for hours and nights together.....And when we meet, we wander, and ponder all over those tiny cells in our brain ...Thinking what should i mouth ....

Guys! Socializing is absolutely a great skill...I would look up to you and applaud...for your immense patience for editing and posting your beautiful funky face pictures.

Relations with your beloved ones wont last with that love and concern....if you just forge your face down into that beloved 7 inches screen to just share a loving long message...

Jump out at some friends place, Share thoughts with them... freak out , laugh, cry make some fanatical beautiful memories adding a tinge of your own presence ...

Its damn high time to get out of that virtual walls build around...Sacrifices are good when it makes you happy and when it makes you feel blissful and contended.

We start to look down at our hands in despair....hoping for the sophisticated slim screen to let go of our discomfort.Which also works out like a savior in many of the longitudes.(probably!)

Relations in the sense, Guys please don't assume it to be formal always like...(Aunty ji namaste....pari pauna....and again become a blue moon) 

Don't think twice to start a conversation with any random person.....If you face any complication ask..

Its highly good to laze around when you feel like..

................But wait a minute!..

No one is going to judge you basing on that!...

And if they happened to judge..good for them ..(chuckles) Talk to yourself ...speak your emotions out! Pen down in a book ...

No-one is perfect,everyone is weird..and born weird and that's why each one is different than the rest..so why bother!

Stop saying "its okay" i am fine(or) I will be fine etc...

its a definite disaster....i assure

Not necessary you should always abide by the rules......Start making a difference ......You will love yourself ...

Pinky promise...!!! ;) I bet you will smirk thinking about me.

Watch out!

I don't set any records, but I do love to keep the crowd vigilant through my unplanned saga.

I comprise bountiful fields of reference but my major design is to proclaim my fondness on acceptance, love, optimism, anticipation,merry mirth and sharing compliments. This has become essential because in today's sphere people are perplexed and bewildered about what real love and real acceptance is and are too "sophisticated and skeptical" to manifest their true emotions and portray legitimate enthusiasm for anything.

Relationships and lifestyle have become to messy off late ,People tend to run over success,glamour,beauty,in such a rapid phase
that they tend to obliterate their possessions wherein they tend to age resentfulness,become envious,and a lot more on cards which cannot be demonstrated

I was all ears to one of the most beautiful story which i came across through one of the most phenomenal writer and it commenced like.......A five-year-old girl made her musical debut in a church .

She had a very beautiful and graceful voice and from the beginning a great career was predicted for her. As she grew older she was getting more and more in demand for church, school and social functions.


Recognizing the need for professional voice training, the family sent her to a well-known voice teacher. The teacher knew his music as perhaps few others did. He was a perfectionist who
demanded top performance at all times. Any time the girl would waiver a bit or miss her timing in the least, he carefully pointed out her errors. Over a period of time, her admiration for her teacher deepened. Despite the age difference and the fact he was more critical than complimentary, she fell in love with him and they were married.

He persisted to lecture and develop her vocal skills , but her friends started detecting transitions in her magnificent natural voice.

It took on a strained quality and no longer had the clear excitement that it formerly possessed. Gradually, invitations to sing came less frequently.

Finally, they stopped.

Then her husband-teacher died and for the next few years she did meager or no singing. Her talent was hardly used, and lay dormant until an exuberant salesman began courting her On an occasion, when she would hum a little tune or a melody which would just burst forth, he would marvel at the beauty of her voice. "Sing some more, Honey. You have the most beautiful voice in all the world," he would say. Now the fact of the matter is, he might not have known whether she was good, bad or indifferent, but he did know he liked her voice very much. So, he showered her with praise. Not too surprisingly, her confidence returned and she began to receive invitations to sing again.

Still later, she married the "good finder" and went on to have a successful career of her own.

The story depicts graceful messages......

A sincere compliment ,A slight pat on the back, A heart full laugh,...is one of the most effective teachings consisting devotion,concern which showcases your emotions and motivational methods in existence . They may seem to be just so much air, but like the air which we use to fill the tires on our automobiles, they can really ease us along life's highway. The greatest good we can do for anyone is not to share our wealth with them, but rather to reveal their own wealth to them.............!!.






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A Showdown with Bon Vivant

Stigmatizing is a kind of misleading that folds sensibility and tariff.

A person of influence once questioned me “How does one stigmatize oneself ?”
All I answered was"Stigmatizing was misleading ourselves"
And he kept mum....!!.?
At first place ,I brainstormed myself... what am I mouthing..Am I sounding oblivious from the fact what he asked me.
Now That’s me.I was feeling astounded as usual for my forthright answers...Later I kept elucidating and explaining myself...Like...Who cares? I’m me. You are you.

We’re are trying to culminate the best we can to be ingenious and original, to back our folks, to breath, to use these brains at our terrific best. .....

As this was just running in my mind ....I took my chair and perched myself wondering incase if he will make me standup again. And the next moment I heard the room thunder with an out of the blue applause.

And as I glanced around myself, I noticed a gleam in maven's eyes.And was feeling relaxed about myself for not sounding nutty.

That day I came across one of my tenacious fervor And patted my back saying ..keep flowing darling.Your up to snuff for being yourself.

Ohh yes! I was elated by their response for applauding me. But, I was much more contended to express myself in a mere selfless manner at the first while.

And that day I realized ..A person is always worried of being acceptable in the culture and for that so incitement ,they trail and compromise there cerebration bestowing on their social orders.




Be Innovative buddies
Express something unexampled.
Grasp from your whole neighboring
Make your existence of humanness become more alluring on an average.

Be an exceptional and conscientious living soul.
Be vigorous so when you are heart broken, you can rebound abaft.

"To be a crimson dose be expressive with amity and durable amount of grit
To be a cobalt dose articulate yourself to be tricky with a blend of matter in hand."

Decide which one you want to be.

Be the little child who looked up to the stars when everyone else in the world doubted you,...........................
Be a child from crux despite you grow.

My $uccess Defi-nation!

Successful individuals have perfected the art of not giving up. It is these people's willingness to go the extra mile and do whatever necessary that differentiates them from others. While others quickly give up without realizing how close they are to their goals, the successful keep on going. It doesn't matter to them how slow they progress, because ultimately they know that with patience and persistence they will eventually make great leaps!

Success is when you and your surroundings grow with you...The extensive approach of introspection,analyzing,assessing,encouraging.every individual.High time we stop being crabs and start being dolphins who sing together to gel on together, who whistle at each other indicating we are absolutely fine.

The parameters of success is found in elements of happiness..and contentment.Now-a-days success is defined in terms of your pay package rather than your happiness in work.If you seem to earn more people to tend guess your happier but reverse is the case in many of the situations which ,I have witnessed .

Search for contentment and satisfaction not for sky high lifestyle where rooms are too big enough to reach one another's heart...where people settle down with their heavier thoughts and in differences escalate.

Wonderful people of this era, I insist every one reading this try assessing people with the spark of smile in a persons eyes.Rather than the curve they put up on face ....

Try assessing people by the warm hugs they give, Rather than their heavy wallets.
Try exploring life in a varied way and find out minute pleasures which cannot be attained by these mere materialistic things.
Create a swag of your own. Be a new name to get imprinted.Be a dolphin .... 😄