Criticism

Criticism

How do you take criticism?
How well do you handle with rumors? was the last question asked by an interviewer. There was a panel of three grey haired frowned men positioned in a relaxed state as though they don't care whether I got the job or no.

The middle man starred at my resume while the other two scribbled in their files. I silently wondered about what did I actually flaunt so much in it was it so intersting!!! That he hardly bothered to drop a stare on my face.

But it was only this question which forced all the three vaguely seated men to drop in stares like that of how a lion looks at his prey.

I noticed a serious expectation from them urging me to answer the query stating "I would handle them with Grace" (eye's rolling in head)
But then! I flinched at first..
Mumbled at second ..
And finally I told

" I am not someone who would walk away withit.I would find out the source make him sit and talk before he gets habituated of leaving his featherful stock behind with traces which have no roots"

to which I observed bewildered expressions loom on their fringed faces.
I was sure of not bagging this job. But I was happy with what I had answered.

At times! In terms to save a present situation we lie and pretend to behave "Take over it all kind of shoulders"! Not knowing this would ruin the current base culture of being honest"

We live on a gradation where delivering of a statement is like munching tit bits to impress the opposite person. And surprisingly we cringe inside and repeat those sentences again and try apprehending it saying

"Did I really say that?"
"Do I really really mean it?"

And finally you dust it off murmuring "forget it!"

No..Being excited seeing someone and blabbering is fine! It's totally Acceptable to...!!

But speaking or accepting something which is against the norms to impress your opponent is a BIG NO NO!

Criticism in today's industry of every genre has become preluding.

How far you stand up for it by yourself and abide by internally is right! But how far you socialize with it go gain attention and play being victim cards by tagging yourself to hashtags!!!

Don't you think earning basic manners should be your birth rule? Stand up if something around you is not sane.
We can't expect the world to stand up for you until unless you "Wake up!"from your slumber

Happy Morning :)