A Showdown with Bon Vivant

Stigmatizing is a kind of misleading that folds sensibility and tariff.

A person of influence once questioned me “How does one stigmatize oneself ?”
All I answered was"Stigmatizing was misleading ourselves"
And he kept mum....!!.?
At first place ,I brainstormed myself... what am I mouthing..Am I sounding oblivious from the fact what he asked me.
Now That’s me.I was feeling astounded as usual for my forthright answers...Later I kept elucidating and explaining myself...Like...Who cares? I’m me. You are you.

We’re are trying to culminate the best we can to be ingenious and original, to back our folks, to breath, to use these brains at our terrific best. .....

As this was just running in my mind ....I took my chair and perched myself wondering incase if he will make me standup again. And the next moment I heard the room thunder with an out of the blue applause.

And as I glanced around myself, I noticed a gleam in maven's eyes.And was feeling relaxed about myself for not sounding nutty.

That day I came across one of my tenacious fervor And patted my back saying ..keep flowing darling.Your up to snuff for being yourself.

Ohh yes! I was elated by their response for applauding me. But, I was much more contended to express myself in a mere selfless manner at the first while.

And that day I realized ..A person is always worried of being acceptable in the culture and for that so incitement ,they trail and compromise there cerebration bestowing on their social orders.




Be Innovative buddies
Express something unexampled.
Grasp from your whole neighboring
Make your existence of humanness become more alluring on an average.

Be an exceptional and conscientious living soul.
Be vigorous so when you are heart broken, you can rebound abaft.

"To be a crimson dose be expressive with amity and durable amount of grit
To be a cobalt dose articulate yourself to be tricky with a blend of matter in hand."

Decide which one you want to be.

Be the little child who looked up to the stars when everyone else in the world doubted you,...........................
Be a child from crux despite you grow.

My $uccess Defi-nation!

Successful individuals have perfected the art of not giving up. It is these people's willingness to go the extra mile and do whatever necessary that differentiates them from others. While others quickly give up without realizing how close they are to their goals, the successful keep on going. It doesn't matter to them how slow they progress, because ultimately they know that with patience and persistence they will eventually make great leaps!

Success is when you and your surroundings grow with you...The extensive approach of introspection,analyzing,assessing,encouraging.every individual.High time we stop being crabs and start being dolphins who sing together to gel on together, who whistle at each other indicating we are absolutely fine.

The parameters of success is found in elements of happiness..and contentment.Now-a-days success is defined in terms of your pay package rather than your happiness in work.If you seem to earn more people to tend guess your happier but reverse is the case in many of the situations which ,I have witnessed .

Search for contentment and satisfaction not for sky high lifestyle where rooms are too big enough to reach one another's heart...where people settle down with their heavier thoughts and in differences escalate.

Wonderful people of this era, I insist every one reading this try assessing people with the spark of smile in a persons eyes.Rather than the curve they put up on face ....

Try assessing people by the warm hugs they give, Rather than their heavy wallets.
Try exploring life in a varied way and find out minute pleasures which cannot be attained by these mere materialistic things.
Create a swag of your own. Be a new name to get imprinted.Be a dolphin .... 😄

A Welcome Note :)

In the midst of the winter winds strolling down the lane and pondering around in my head lending a break to myself......from my rigorous and mundane routine .

I intend to confront my desire to hem in my cognition and insight on assorted and diversified enclosures of life and hallucinated fantasies.......!!!

   

 Not bothering about the quests from the worldly aspects of ..how ..?why..!when.??.is it! 

                                

                           I embark on a novel journey of penning down my heart full conjectures...this Christmas season which is lit up with a sing song atmosphere enveloped among the joy and memories attained in this huddled up trail of days together...!

A hello to myself...!! :)