The Storm

The Storm...

Most of the times life gives you lemons make it a lemonade or pass by the so called storm.The journey changes you...

And you really will have to make it through that violent, metaphysical, symbolic form.

No matter how metaphysical or symbolic it might be, make no mistake about it; 

It will cut through flesh like a thousand razor blades.People will bleed there and you will bleed too.Hot, red blood.You'll catch the blood in your hands, your own blood and blood of others too.

And once the storm is over you won't remember how you made it or managed to survive though it.You won't even be sure, in fact, whether the storm is really over or not!

But! One thing is certain.When you come out of the storm you won't be the same person who walked in.That's what this storm's is all about.

The Tale Before The "D day"!

The Traditions have been an age old bias towards women!

A girl will have to leave her nest to build a new den

She quivers when she leaves her built hopes behind.

She renders her heart out to a family unknown 

She was hardly a human with defined emotions until she realized that she was suppose to be no less than water which is ever ready to transform

How, How, & How do you think the change would be acceptable!? Asked a little girl to the new bride

She read a tale before she left for the wedding dias that day to the young little girl and herself! 

POEM : To the New Phase!

Wrong is the one! Who thinks a girl leaves...

She carries, binds, multiplies & Adds until you feel tired of counting. My friend!!

Yes!! you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.

But let there be spaces in your togetherness.

And let the winds of heaven dance between you 

Love one another, but do not bind each other in limitations.

Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls

Fill each others cup with hope and drink by giving space to breath 

Give one another of your bread but not from the same loaf.

Consider each other more as love rather than responsibility on head.

Share pain, love, grief, ...Let the eyes speak the language of love

Surrender with will! Respect More......and Talk fierce truths 

Let not the man forget that he has another family to take care from where the girl hails!

Let not! Let not! & Let not.
Said the man Above!

Consider the power of humanness & Immense love in each other rather than in pillars and monuments.

Said the man Above!
Said the man Above!

She closed the column,

Lifted her cancan and walked with a heavy heart, 

Chin up with a bitter-sweet smile. 

She breathed long and said! 

Welcome the Change!

The Sapiens

Humans are the most selfish creatures because they have more brains to use than follow their heart,
More choices to make than living the one with entire zeal
Have become more pleasing to let their selves more of centeredness.
And when a human brain uses his heart (as in not the one which pumps blood, but the one which makes your soul run after that fact that makes you forget the rest) to make a decision in any stream of life he is considered to be
An Idiot,
A Foolish,
A Wanderer &
An outlandish variant of a kind

The Human mind focuses more on those liabilities where it is not required for him to pay attention.
They prioritize in impressing a certain third party kind who was never a part of their world but had been looped into become one due to a certain dependent resource that you are connected with.

A man should learn to focus on the ones who bother and struggle for him, rather than trying to change himself for the ones who never worried about him

I know its a mere fact which is very evident and simple but is hardly ever applied.
We the so-called fast generation, 

The Tech Savvy's, 

The people who are running after quality of life rather than quantity!

Has actually forgotten the basic old
traditions of where life actually is present?

No!! Fellow Mates..This post is not to convince neither to feel right about self.Its for explaining a point of view.

Life is present in living with those who live for you or are living for you.
Life is present in not pleasing every alternate being,But! Is present in pleasing the pleased already.

** Many might wonder why should we please the pleased?? 

Pleasing doesn't mean agreeing to smthg which is not right! At times sitting along with them for hours just to understand their point and taking time to explain your sight is also one of a kind!!! 

You can find multiple variants accordingly

It's in sticking to those few walking bodies, rather than fetching for new at every place.
It's in being self-satisfied than greedy

My Dear Netizens,

Blogs are not here to preach. They are here to remind you what your losing which
I guess you already possess but are leaving in the hind sight.

Few connections which are gold!
From Your Life bearers, Your Partner/Spouse, Your Siblings and then  to your closest and possibly the tiniest circle should be treasured the most

To All the atheists out there!!

Trusting the glories & tales I know their can no possibly be a thiest like you!

Just believing in the existence of possibility and feeling the power of being loved whilist also being able to reciprocate back to that particular feel should be enough to be a thiest.

Dawn before Yawn..

The veil which left before being withered.
The hopes which crept from paths tough to be adhered.

The dungarees of the farmers which lingered around in mud with a little feel of being called shabby.Now wore crisp tees like coffins around the neck.

Days being shallower by throwing fake smiles as though giving condolences from afar instead of greeting "Good mornings!" before a byee..

Knowingly or unknowingly
Willingly or Unwillingly..
It was all falling away ..before their thoughts let them wail away.

There were more starry eyes in the day then what the night brought in.
Bounds of talents rose like Sunshine  after the dawn sank in.

Dwelled in a universe arranged of wires than with strings of love.
We waited for hope to paint new canvases of Dove.

                                   -- Aishwarya Agnihotri

Criticism

Criticism

How do you take criticism?
How well do you handle with rumors? was the last question asked by an interviewer. There was a panel of three grey haired frowned men positioned in a relaxed state as though they don't care whether I got the job or no.

The middle man starred at my resume while the other two scribbled in their files. I silently wondered about what did I actually flaunt so much in it was it so intersting!!! That he hardly bothered to drop a stare on my face.

But it was only this question which forced all the three vaguely seated men to drop in stares like that of how a lion looks at his prey.

I noticed a serious expectation from them urging me to answer the query stating "I would handle them with Grace" (eye's rolling in head)
But then! I flinched at first..
Mumbled at second ..
And finally I told

" I am not someone who would walk away withit.I would find out the source make him sit and talk before he gets habituated of leaving his featherful stock behind with traces which have no roots"

to which I observed bewildered expressions loom on their fringed faces.
I was sure of not bagging this job. But I was happy with what I had answered.

At times! In terms to save a present situation we lie and pretend to behave "Take over it all kind of shoulders"! Not knowing this would ruin the current base culture of being honest"

We live on a gradation where delivering of a statement is like munching tit bits to impress the opposite person. And surprisingly we cringe inside and repeat those sentences again and try apprehending it saying

"Did I really say that?"
"Do I really really mean it?"

And finally you dust it off murmuring "forget it!"

No..Being excited seeing someone and blabbering is fine! It's totally Acceptable to...!!

But speaking or accepting something which is against the norms to impress your opponent is a BIG NO NO!

Criticism in today's industry of every genre has become preluding.

How far you stand up for it by yourself and abide by internally is right! But how far you socialize with it go gain attention and play being victim cards by tagging yourself to hashtags!!!

Don't you think earning basic manners should be your birth rule? Stand up if something around you is not sane.
We can't expect the world to stand up for you until unless you "Wake up!"from your slumber

Happy Morning :)

SHOW - BUSINESS

The Ultimate SHOW - BUSINESS

Self - marketing
Being Patted!
Receiving Acknowledgements

Have you ever thought about all the terms which have taken a primary importance in our life's cycle.

We live in a world of Show Business.
Where a normal office going guy saves a life of a person who meets with an accident and brags all day about it at his workplace.

Where going and doing charity at ventures by clicking pictures is considered cool while running away his own mom to an old age home spree.

Asking attention from parents even at an age where you need to smile, hug and be there for whatever it takes is such an irony to see when adolescents ranging in there mid twenties demand for it.

I happen to listen to a conversation among two siblings where the older brother has borne a trophy at home for surviving a classy living in the city. while the sister insists on him to take him along to city.and questions drop in 

"You..youuu.. Areee to impossible to sustain in this world.
Because you are to naive.
You are to sacrificing in nature like a lame lamb!! It's irking...to see that
You are dressing....why so bright!?

She asked him..
Then what should I be like to come along with you to city?
He said you got to be something which you are not!

You got to hit! Stab! Lie!
You need to show off even if you paint your nails new!
You need to look classy edge by wearing these knee length slit cut dresses like the rest do...have you not seen my pictures on Facebook.
Oh man! You don't even have an account right..

You need to maintain your outlook and talk fluent and strong though whatever your talking is dumb! (Who cares..!!)

And look at you !!
Hairs all thrown away...
Wearing knee-length bright skirts, and singing la la la..All day...Ehh!!

You need to elaborately describe about how you saved a woman (though your brains know that you have replaced a woman from an ant).

This world is a business..you need to steal thoughts and make a happening life out of it. Its Simple!
Survival of the fittest..you see."

I wondered and laughed heartily about what "Survival of the fittest" statement would actually mean to this hollow man.

And pondered over my own self.The 3/4th of the world now gives priority to who is not naive and innocent anymore.It demands you change and urges you to steep low will make presume to have fallen for evil frail heels of this world

But how far you stand aloof by staying calm and pragmatic by not losing your purity in self will make it better not just for the self but also for the coming generations to understand that the magic and positivity the epic tales/stories of our mythologies preached are not just myths but logics (logies) which truly existed!

I hope and wish instead of telling there was a world of a kind which had these powers (Portrayed in Avengers) were gained
Not by fake self marketing,
Not by wearing high heels,
Not by being all glowiee and glassy

Infact it was all formed and developed from within
by investing on giving away possessions.
by finding meaning through every element and pore which existed.
By awakening the powers of humbleness and humility.
By leaving vicious the outer appearance (Maya) smash under heels,

Like always said "Great powers came with great giveaways, to shoulder heavy responsibilities". Let them know that was heart breakingly beautiful which had left their souls speak to each other not their mouths unlike today!

Never go out of fashion

It's important to show HOW YOU FEEL?
It's important to behave REAL!
It's important to NOT PLEASE every alternate person.
It's important to look into self!
Before passing JUDGEMENTS.

Opinions to a thought are like relatives.
It's Important to chose and stand by your instincts rather than allowing an unacceptable feel grow just because it majority on people to weigh down.

Every Choice has its pros and cons, so there is hardly a choice defined as bad or good. Situations are the teachers of the values and intentions which let's you decides accordingly of what is being violated or what has to be invented to make it standstill.

"Life is not a manual or set of rules "says every person to make self sound Uber cool and broad. Little do my eyes fall low immediately when I lose in thought.
(*faking smiles around*) That it is actually a certain set of rules to many lives pertaining around. Few dare to livein by cracking the friddles in the grid and few choose to settle among the squares in the grid.

WE CAN CHOOSE AND LIVE UNTIL IT DOESN'T HARM THE SANITY AND PURITY OF ANY RELATIONSHIP.

We live in a society of Judgements..
Let us be kindly honest.
Rather than dishonestly cheesy
Being Simple was always and will always be in trend. Not something which goes out of fashion.

So bring it on guys... "Never go out of fashion."